Umar uthamin wahab
Last Login Date: 22/01/2017
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Most muslim men think they are the ideal husband.I myself, do not think I am one. However, I do think I can strive to be the ideal husband and would like to be one. I want you to know that I am a humble, gentle, kind, considerate, caring, loving man. Im always open to good advice willing to cooperate with my wife rather than dictate rules. I will also consider her opinions and let her feel that she is a part of the decision-making process in whatever takes place in our home as well as our lives.
As my wife you will never walk behind me. You will always walk beside me. You will be treated as an equal to me for Isam has taught me that women are equal to men in humanity, transcendence, dignity, and honor and I sincerely believe this.
"I recommend that you treat women with goodness. The best of you are those who treat their wives the best." Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) and those who strike their wifes are not from us.
This is the real Islam according to its origins and resources. It is not what Muslims do nowadays; it is rather the great principles established by the Qur'an and sunnah.
What I am looking for? Well, I am in search of a muslimah who practices the religion of Islam, not just bear the religion. One who's priority is to seek the pleasure of Allah. She tries acquiring the qualities of a good wife by following the examples of the prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) and obeying what is commanded in the Book of Allah. Complete obedience and adherence to the Sunnah of the Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) and Quran is the best of a woman’s qualities. Thats the kind of woman im looking for. Now some men marry women for beauty but beauty will not last forever. Some marry for wealth but wealth will come and go. But however , a persons religion and character will last throughout his or her life. Islam teaches us that being rich in the heart is more important than being rich in the pocket. I am not a rich man so the woman for me will be one that is content with what Allah gives us, and will constantly thank Him for the innumerable blessings He has bestowed upon us. She will not be preoccupied with what others have in wealth. She will know It is only a distraction from enhancing our relationship with Allah and with each other. Instead she will make dua that Allah blesses others with what they have, and be content with what we have as a couple; and she will live within our means without yearning for what others have. But most importantly she will marry for the sake of Allah and love. And for nothing more and nothing less